gail belsky

writer/editor/consultant

Over the Hill and Between the Sheets: Sex, Love and Lust in Middle Age

Over the Hill and Between the Sheets: Sex, Love, and Lust in Middle Age
Edited by Gail Belsky
Springboard Press, 2007
ISBN-10: 0446580791
ISBN-13: 978-0446580793

About the Book:
We used to have few expectations of sex in middle age. That was before being besieged by Desperate Housewives (who have never been "desperate" a day in their lives) and the Sex and the City girls (with their $400 shoes and unbridled passion). Suddenly midlife sex is hot, hot, hot … but beyond the idealized images we get from Hollywood, what does a real-life, grown-up relationship look like today?
The essays in this collection are as varied as the lives and experiences of the writers themselves. Jacquelyn Mitchard finds love in a hammock … with a much younger man. Cameron Stracher tries to escape real life with an ill-fated guys weekend in Vegas. Ann Hood and her husband are torn apart by grief … and held together by passion. Their words and experiences are incredibly varied -- some are explicitly sexy, some are surprisingly sweet, some are wickedly funny, and a few are justifiably angry. But all of the writers are unflinchingly honest as they describe their experiences "over the hill and between the sheets."

Reviews:
Over the Hill and Between the Sheets is a standout that approaches the topic from myriad perspectives. There are sexy confessionals from Joyce Maynard, Caroline Leavitt, Jacqueline Mitchard and other stellar contributors.
- The Chicago Sun-Times

This collection of essays is about lust, love, and commitment in the over-40 generation. You can read about men deciding to have vasectomies or discussing impotence, women cheating on their loving husbands or rekindling the spark. There are many wonderful essays [in this book].
- The Boston Globe

"These thoughtful essays from the trenches of middle age will make you laugh, sigh, and sometimes cry."
- Shape magazine

“In this anthology, the heroines are not naïve twenty-something girls, but rather experienced, i.e. middle-age women who honestly delve into sex, love, and lust. Tidbits of wisdom, humor, and truth will have you laughing and possibly redefining at what age one is "over the hill."
- GlamNest.com

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For info on Over the Hill and Between the Sheets: Sex, Love, and Lost in Middle Age, contact:
Matthew Ballast, Executive Director of Publicity
Grand Central Publishing
212.364.1237


Contributors include:

Jacquelyn Mitchard
Ann Hood
Cameron Stracher
Eric Bartels
Marion Winik
Susan Cheever
Caroline Leavitt
Helene Stapinski


From the book:

"It used to be that we had few expectations of sex in middle age. Now, the bar is set pretty high. In popular culture today, mid-life sex is hot, hot, hot—and women are getting as much as men. We’ve got the Desperate Housewives, who have never been desperate a day in their lives, and the Sex and the City girls, with their million-dollar shoes and their unbridled passion. Most of us, however, neither look like that, nor live like that."